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I’ve also noticed that she’s happiest when she’s dating a couple of people at once.
This has changed now that she has started seeing someone she really likes, but until recently, I encouraged her to keep seeing this other, duddier guy throughout, just so she wouldn’t concentrate all of her anxieties on one dude.
I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.
In other words, if you’re ISO a diamond ring, dating three people at once is probably not wise.
“You probably need to assess whether there is really some red flag that is holding you back from having an exclusive relationship with that individual,” she says.
If there’s no weird deal-breaker, perhaps “you are simply commitment-phobic,” she adds.
It should be said that there is definitely such a thing as running around like a headless chicken, dating far too many people to ever feel any semblance of happiness.
So how do you know if what you’re doing is constructive or calamitous?